Swimming & the new Electrosex Wand

I dont swim much and I never really liked the idea if swimming in the chastity device. There have been a few reasons why. When I go swimming I've mostly got the children with us (we have 3) and my wife dosnt always come in with us so it can make it difficult in the changing room. Also I've always got this slight fear someone will spot it in your trunks while swimming. The last reason is just the fear of the whole thing falling off, despite the unlikelihood of this happening. 

I have swam in it more recently, but only the looker 3. The children are getting so they have their own cubicles and with the PA loop locked through then end of my penis theres no way its ever coming of without the key!

Tonight was different, no cubicles and in a place where my pierced nipples get the odd strange look so imagine turning up to the open changing room in a shiny steel chastity cage! The freedom was nice. I'd hoped when we got back that Mistress Keyheld might allow me a little penetration, but no her new wand from Uberkinky came out that she's really growing to love. I had to be the best supporting (out of chastity) husband while she enjoyed her wand and orgasm.

Afterwards she instructed me to lock up again. I guess thats a life in chastity, not always interesting 

Valentine's didn't go so well

It was a lovely start to Valentine's Day this year. Being on a Saturday ment we could have a little lay in. The children were either asleep or still in their rooms so it was looking good. 

Mistresskeyheld seemed up for fun too and after a little foreplay she asked if I wanted her to unlock me? Of course I said it was her choice, but explaned it probibaly wasn't going to last long after 44 days locked in a chastity cage. The two locks came out and the cage came off, but I had to go and give myself a wash which sort of interrupted the fun. 

True to form on my return and some more foreplay and that lovely moment of penetration that's like your losing your virginity all over again I was on the edge of orgasm. After asking her to slow down. She wasn't close and Valentine's Day is shurly a day 'she should come first' we moved on to some cunnilingus (it's fitting the word is a kind of tongue twister) that's when it happened!

Nope it wasn't her orgasm, but a dribble of cum that signified a spontaneous ruined orgasm. I tried to stop it happening but I just couldn't.

It left me feeling disappointed that I haven't satisfied mistresskeyheld. 

Now it's male chastity day something I've been trying to premote for the last few months and here I am currently unlocked. Hope mistresskeyheld entered into the spirit of things later

Male Chastity Day

Male chastity is every day in our house I hear you say. Well that's great that you've managed to work male Chastity into your relationship but please join in and help support the push to encourage others into this kink / lifestyle, spot please reblog, and share.

So what's it for?

This all started in a conversation on twitter in late 2013

Well apart from the obvious of locking your man up its really for all those kinky couples who like to try new stuff but they have a whole draw of vibrators, stokers, sexy lingerie, maybe a whip or two. There. Problem is this with Valentine's Day fast approaching what am I going to get the other half for valentines? They've got everything? Of course it's almost obligatory to get roses on valentines but what else?

That's where male chastity comes in and it's also why it's on the day after valentines. You give the gift of a chastity device to your partner and suggest #malechastityday would be a great time to try it out. 

Can there be anything more sexy than giving your partner the keys to your pleasure? Even if it's just for a day. Of course we're not advocating any length of lock up just whatever you fell happy with. 

It's important to understand this isn't a fidelity thing. If you don't trust your partner than this isn't for you. 

Want to try this out? my favourite supplier is UberKinky