Swimming & the new Electrosex Wand

I dont swim much and I never really liked the idea if swimming in the chastity device. There have been a few reasons why. When I go swimming I've mostly got the children with us (we have 3) and my wife dosnt always come in with us so it can make it difficult in the changing room. Also I've always got this slight fear someone will spot it in your trunks while swimming. The last reason is just the fear of the whole thing falling off, despite the unlikelihood of this happening. 

I have swam in it more recently, but only the looker 3. The children are getting so they have their own cubicles and with the PA loop locked through then end of my penis theres no way its ever coming of without the key!

Tonight was different, no cubicles and in a place where my pierced nipples get the odd strange look so imagine turning up to the open changing room in a shiny steel chastity cage! The freedom was nice. I'd hoped when we got back that Mistress Keyheld might allow me a little penetration, but no her new wand from Uberkinky came out that she's really growing to love. I had to be the best supporting (out of chastity) husband while she enjoyed her wand and orgasm.

Afterwards she instructed me to lock up again. I guess thats a life in chastity, not always interesting 

Valentine's didn't go so well

It was a lovely start to Valentine's Day this year. Being on a Saturday ment we could have a little lay in. The children were either asleep or still in their rooms so it was looking good. 

Mistresskeyheld seemed up for fun too and after a little foreplay she asked if I wanted her to unlock me? Of course I said it was her choice, but explaned it probibaly wasn't going to last long after 44 days locked in a chastity cage. The two locks came out and the cage came off, but I had to go and give myself a wash which sort of interrupted the fun. 

True to form on my return and some more foreplay and that lovely moment of penetration that's like your losing your virginity all over again I was on the edge of orgasm. After asking her to slow down. She wasn't close and Valentine's Day is shurly a day 'she should come first' we moved on to some cunnilingus (it's fitting the word is a kind of tongue twister) that's when it happened!

Nope it wasn't her orgasm, but a dribble of cum that signified a spontaneous ruined orgasm. I tried to stop it happening but I just couldn't.

It left me feeling disappointed that I haven't satisfied mistresskeyheld. 

Now it's male chastity day something I've been trying to premote for the last few months and here I am currently unlocked. Hope mistresskeyheld entered into the spirit of things later

Did you put your chastity cage back on?

Weekends are something I always look forward to, often my wife and I will take a bath together and will unlock me so the cage can be cleaned.

We came up with a few a long time ago now where I'll do the shaving of my penis and balls, I'll put the cage back on, but she will clean me and play with my penis.

Today was no different I brought the key safe down, my wife unlocked the two locks on my cage and pa loop then I slide the loop out and cage off. The ring stays on as normal, it's still easy to clean with it on and the cage goes straight back on afterwards. 

The cleaning is often done with some Lynx shower gel and a net bath scrunchy thing that's quite abrasive when rubbed up and down your rather tender penis.  I suppose it gets rid of some of that dead skin that doesn't come off so well when locked in chastity. Often some of the shower gel gets into my pa hole and can sting while the cleaning is going on. I love the fact that my wife takes time to clean me but don't always like the act itself. 

Next the bit I like, the teasing and hopefully some edging. She'll often then start rubbing my penis with just her hands usually still with soap of some sort. I can almost achieve an edge or two, but today was different. She used some Vaseline which made me edge much quicker which meant i could get 3 edges in after only a couple of minutes. Bath time was cut short and she went upstairs and i got out of the bath and as usual cleaned the little chastity cage and put it back on with pa loop and all. i gave her the keys back when i went upstairs to our bedroom.

later that evening when mistresskeyheld was in the mood she asked "did you put your chastity cage back on?"

"of course" was my reply

"Thats a shame as I was going to let you have a little slip , slide in my pussy"

Of course she didn't mention unlocking me for a treat.

Male Chastity Day

Male chastity is every day in our house I hear you say. Well that's great that you've managed to work male Chastity into your relationship but please join in and help support the push to encourage others into this kink / lifestyle, spot please reblog, and share.

So what's it for?

This all started in a conversation on twitter in late 2013

Well apart from the obvious of locking your man up its really for all those kinky couples who like to try new stuff but they have a whole draw of vibrators, stokers, sexy lingerie, maybe a whip or two. There. Problem is this with Valentine's Day fast approaching what am I going to get the other half for valentines? They've got everything? Of course it's almost obligatory to get roses on valentines but what else?

That's where male chastity comes in and it's also why it's on the day after valentines. You give the gift of a chastity device to your partner and suggest #malechastityday would be a great time to try it out. 

Can there be anything more sexy than giving your partner the keys to your pleasure? Even if it's just for a day. Of course we're not advocating any length of lock up just whatever you fell happy with. 

It's important to understand this isn't a fidelity thing. If you don't trust your partner than this isn't for you. 

Want to try this out? my favourite supplier is UberKinky  

Custom chastity device

Should I buy a custom chastity device? 

A question often asked by people on Twitter. First I wouldn't recommend you go custom on your first device as you may get the measurements totally wrong or you might hate it! There are lots of inexpensive devices about that's are admitidly sometimes only short term wear / play devices. If you want something a bit more long term then try the Holy Trainer 2. 

As for the original custom question, that depends on how much you wear it. I've come up with a fool prof way of deciding:

Every time you have a pinch from your device then put 10p in a pot. Depending on how long you wear it or how comfortable it is your either going to decide to stick with what you have or buy that custom device you've been wanting.

Custom is great if you get it right. Sometimes it can take a few adjustments to get it right. Two things are important you have when ordering your custom chastity device, patients and money!

Long term with the looker3 from steelworxx

Update to my last blog:

its now 30 months since my purchase of the looker3 I Ordering / Manufacture

The looker arived on Thursday, we had been waiting for a few weeks to arrive. I had to confirm the size details about a week ago. When I ordered it I tried to use my reality head and not try and get something that was a great fantasy, but would never work in reality.

Finally on Saturday my wife - (I shall just call her M) asked me to go and put it on. I had been out of the steelworxx braveheart for a few days. Off i went and shaved myself with a nice new sharp razor and talc. then i got the new chastity device out of my bedside draw. took it all apart inspected it. its an amazing quality product that steelworxx manufacture. A truly custom piece of engineering. It doesn't have any padlocks, but rather custom barrel that retracts from the body of the cylinder lock

Putting it on for the first time

Now the putting on. first i offered the ring upto my scrotum, then started pulling my loose sac through the ring. eventually on testical popped through, then the other. Next I pushed the head of my growing penis down and through the ring, then pulled the rest of the shaft through until the ring was in place. Putting on the cage took a little longer but with the help of a stocking and quite a bit of fiddling I eventually got the head of my penis and most of the shaft squashed into the cage. the difficult part was sliding in the PA shackle. I had to withdraw partly and rotate the head until I could line the hole up with the open section of the underside of the cage. it took a few minutes but I did get there in the end. it was now just a matter of sliding the lock barrels into the cage and pa sections and turning the key.

I spent a little more time adjusting myself and getting everything in the right place. then put my shorts back on and went to continue the rest of the day.

Wearing it

I can say for the first 24 hours I hardly knew I was wearing it. I did have a little discomfort getting the PA shackle in the right position but that was about it. Its easy to adjust as you can just move things about between the bars. Its not heavy, no pinching and most importantly it didn't wake me up at 4am.
 

Long term wear 

After the first week I found that it was becoming increasingly uncomfortable around the end of my pee tube. Eventually I had to remove it and found it was trying to pull the pa loop through the head of my penis. I kept the cage in but without the pa loop. I was really disappointed as after the first week of true lockup I had to be locked without the loop and have the possibility of pulling out.

I tried drilling a hole further up the head of the decice to allow my penis to be straighter in the cage. I felt part of the problem was that the cage was too curved and allows too much movement especial during the night when mu penis wants to get hard. 

The new hole didn't really work so for a coupon of years I've been unable to wear the pa loop with the cage. Every now and the I would try again, once I managed a month with the pa loop in. 

I think I've cracked it now though. I must keep the pa loop tight to the end of the cage. Then it doesn't seem to cause a problem at all

My First 24 Hours In The Looker 3 from Steelworxx

Ordering / Manufacture


The looker arived on Thursday, we had been waiting for a few weeks to arrive. I had to confirm the size details about a week ago. When I ordered it I tried to use my reality head and not try and get something that was a great fantasy, but would never work in reality.

Finally on Saturday my wife - (I shall just call her M) asked me to go and put it on. I had been out of the steelworxx braveheart for a few days. Off i went and shaved myself with a nice new sharp razor and talc. then i got the new chastity device out of my bedside draw. took it all apart inspected it. its an amazing quality product that steelworxx manufacture. A truly custom piece of engineering. It doesn't have any padlocks, but rather custom barrel that retracts from the body of the cylinder lock

Putting it on for the first time

Now the putting on. first i offered the ring upto my scrotum, then started pulling my loose sac through the ring. eventually on testical popped through, then the other. Next I pushed the head of my growing penis down and through the ring, then pulled the rest of the shaft through until the ring was in place. Putting on the cage took a little longer but with the help of a stocking and quite a bit of fiddling I eventually got the head of my penis and most of the shaft squashed into the cage. the difficult part was sliding in the PA shackle. I had to withdraw partly and rotate the head until I could line the hole up with the open section of the underside of the cage. it took a few minutes but I did get there in the end. it was now just a matter of sliding the lock barrels into the cage and pa sections and turning the key.

I spent a little more time adjusting myself and getting everything in the right place. then put my shorts back on and went to continue the rest of the day.

Wearing it

I can say for the first 24 hours I hardly knew I was wearing it. I did have a little discomfort getting the PA shackle in the right position but that was about it. Its easy to adjust as you can just move things about between the bars. Its not heavy, no pinching and most importantly it didn't wake me up at 4am.



I cant say to much more about it. this is the first 24 hours after all, I'll do a proper review in a week or two.

hope you like the pictures :)